Max St JohnFree talk: Leading without DramaI’m holding an online talk on the 5th December, introducing the drama triangle and how it can inform your relationships at work and at…1 min read·Nov 29, 2023----
Max St JohnWhat can we agree on?There is (almost) always middle ground, even when you are completely at odds with someone else’s point of view. In my latest podcast, I…1 min read·Nov 15, 2023--1--1
Max St JohnNew podcast: Finding Steady GroundI’ve wanted to start a podcast for some time but held off because the idea just wasn’t clear or urgent enough.2 min read·Jun 9, 2023----
Max St JohninHow to fight wellA map for conflictIntroducing a tool for navigating any difficult situation.5 min read·Feb 27, 2023----
Max St JohninHow to fight wellLet your kids fightWhy we need to get better at managing our own issues with conflict before trying to sort our our kids’ fights.·6 min read·Jan 14, 2023--11--11
Max St JohninHow to fight wellHow to say “No”.A short course on getting better at boundaries.·3 min read·Jan 9, 2023--1--1
Max St JohnGetting better at boundariesHow to understand what your boundaries are and to get better at standing by them, for less stress and a more creative life.12 min read·Jul 5, 2021----
Max St JohninHow to fight wellWhy you need to stop helping.There’s a model in psychology called ‘The Drama Triangle’, created by someone called Dr Stephen Karpman in the 1960s. It gives us a way of…6 min read·Jul 9, 2020----
Max St JohnVideo: Why we all need to stop worrying about climate change.A few months ago, I wrote a blog post that developed a life of its own. It was my way of making sense of the despair and anxiety I’d…1 min read·Nov 12, 2019----
Max St JohninHow to fight wellHow to act wisely in conflictWhen we’re triggered we feel urged to act immediately. But those actions often come with unintended, unhelpful consequences. Here’s how to…5 min read·Jul 24, 2019--1--1