Free talk: Leading without DramaI’m holding an online talk on the 5th December, introducing the drama triangle and how it can inform your relationships at work and at…Nov 29, 2023Nov 29, 2023
What can we agree on?There is (almost) always middle ground, even when you are completely at odds with someone else’s point of view. In my latest podcast, I…Nov 15, 20231Nov 15, 20231
New podcast: Finding Steady GroundI’ve wanted to start a podcast for some time but held off because the idea just wasn’t clear or urgent enough.Jun 9, 2023Jun 9, 2023
Published inHow to fight wellA map for conflictIntroducing a tool for navigating any difficult situation.Feb 27, 2023Feb 27, 2023
Published inHow to fight wellLet your kids fightWhy we need to get better at managing our own issues with conflict before trying to sort our our kids’ fights.Jan 14, 202311Jan 14, 202311
Published inHow to fight wellHow to say “No”.A short course on getting better at boundaries.Jan 9, 20231Jan 9, 20231
Getting better at boundariesHow to understand what your boundaries are and to get better at standing by them, for less stress and a more creative life.Jul 5, 2021Jul 5, 2021
Published inHow to fight wellWhy you need to stop helping.There’s a model in psychology called ‘The Drama Triangle’, created by someone called Dr Stephen Karpman in the 1960s. It gives us a way of…Jul 9, 20201Jul 9, 20201
Video: Why we all need to stop worrying about climate change.A few months ago, I wrote a blog post that developed a life of its own. It was my way of making sense of the despair and anxiety I’d…Nov 12, 2019Nov 12, 2019
Published inHow to fight wellHow to act wisely in conflictWhen we’re triggered we feel urged to act immediately. But those actions often come with unintended, unhelpful consequences. Here’s how to…Jul 24, 20191Jul 24, 20191
